Stop waiting!
Not sure? Take the next logical step. Have some faith.
What is it that you are waiting for? That perfect job? That perfect date? A clear vision of exactly what to do next? The good book says faith without works is dead. Meaning, you need motion. You need to do something. Take the next logical step.
Get with some older trusted friends if you are not sure and get some advice. Touch up your resume and send it out to your network. Ask her out. Go on an interview. You need to move. Sitting still will take you no where. Get some advice. Pray if you need to. Do some research and then take the next logical step!