So what can you do to change your old paradigm that says you can’t, to the new paradigm that says you can? First, as we said earlier, do some work to discover what gifts and passions your were born with. Then begin to google what kind of jobs or careers use those talents and maybe go do a few interviews or go talk to some companies about those types of jobs. You may already know exactly what you need to do because this small voice or urging inside has been bugging your for quite a while. Respond to this voice or urging and go talk with some people about what those organizations do or how could I get involved. Maybe at first as a volunteer giving a little of you if time to learn more about yourself and your passion and about this possibly new career. Maybe take a part time position for just a few hours a week to see if you really love it.